lovelargelabia:

Wonderful contribution - please read.

Hi, 
I had an appointment with a plastic surgeon yesterday to discuss a a labia reduction. He was like "oh yes, they really are quite long" which obviously, since I'am already very self conscious about them, did not help me but I guess helped him, because I was ready to set a date for surgery (not so cheap either - 2800 euros all in all). Then at the last moment I said I would sleep over it and decide in the morning - went home searched the net and found your site and it really got me thinking. I'm 50 now and for most of my life I wasn't even aware of having bigger labia then most and consequently also had no problem. I think it started 8 to 10 years ago when all this "perfect vagina" craze came up that I started comparing mine to others and became embarrassed about them. But last night seeing all these pictures of different labias and reading all the postings I thought "this is ridiculous - what am I doing" . I spent most of my life with them, none of my men ever had a problem with them, I used to not have a problem with them - I cannot and will not now bend to some dumb law of conformity that makes no sense and only makes women feel insecure. So, thank you all for helping me to think straight again. 
thank you